coming soon...the steward sheet : Your complete system to budget, save, invest, and eliminate debt — all in one simple, ultimate money manager for financial independence sign up below

5 Financial Habits That Keep You Stuck — And Exactly How to Break Them

It’s Not About How Much You Make — It’s About What You Do With It Most people aren’t broke because they don’t make enough money. They're broke because of small, everyday mistakes that add up over time. The good news? If small mistakes can keep you broke, small changes can also make you rich over time. You don’t need to win the lottery, land a six-figure job, or become an investing genius overnight. You just need to stop doing what’s keeping you stuck.

Liliane Meteumba

4/27/20254 min read

Here are five sneaky mistakes that quietly drain your bank account — and, more importantly, how to fix them starting today.

1. Living Without a Budget

No budget = no plan.
And no plan = financial chaos.

When you don’t tell your money where to go, it disappears.
Simple as that.

You might know your rent, your car payment, and your phone bill.
But what about the $6 coffees, the $20 lunches, the $15 subscriptions you forgot you had?
Those "tiny" expenses sneak up and devour your paycheck faster than you realize.

The Fix:
Create a simple budget today.

✅ Write down exactly how much money you bring in each month.
✅ List your must-pay bills (rent, utilities, insurance).
✅ Set aside money for savings and investing (yes, even if it’s small).
✅ Then, assign the rest intentionally (groceries, transportation, fun money).

Even a basic budget is better than guessing.
When you give your dollars a job, you stop wondering where they went — and you start making real progress.

Related tip: Read our guide on how to create a simple budget you'll actually stick to.

2. Ignoring Debt Interest

Debt is bad enough.
But debt interest is the real financial killer.

When you ignore your debt’s interest rates, you end up:

  • Paying way more than you borrowed

  • Staying stuck in debt years longer than necessary

  • Losing thousands (even tens of thousands) you could have saved or invested

For example, carrying a $5,000 credit card balance at 20% interest could cost you over $1,200 a year — just in interest!

The Fix:
Attack your high-interest debts aggressively.

✅ Make a list of all your debts, sorted by interest rate (highest to lowest).
✅ Focus on paying off the highest-interest debt first (this is called the Debt Avalanche method).
✅ Always pay more than the minimum, even if it’s just $20 extra.

Every dollar you throw at debt saves you dollars in interest later.

Want to learn more? Read Debt Snowball vs. Debt Avalanche: Which One Will Set You Free Faster.

3. Treating Savings As Optional

Most people treat saving money like a luxury.
"If I have anything left over after paying bills and living my life, then maybe I’ll save."

Spoiler alert:
There’s rarely anything left over.

If you treat savings as optional, you’ll never have enough.
If you treat savings as non-negotiable, you’ll always have security — no matter what you earn.

The Fix:
Pay yourself first.

✅ Set up an automatic transfer from your checking account to your savings account the day after payday.
✅ Start small — even $25 or $50 per paycheck makes a difference.
✅ Increase it slowly as your income grows or your debts shrink.

Saving should be your first expense, not your last hope.

Imagine how different your life would feel if you had $1,000, $5,000, or $10,000 tucked away for emergencies or opportunities.
That life starts with one automatic transfer.

Bonus: Consider opening a high-yield savings account to grow your money faster.

4. Letting Emotions Drive Your Spending

Ever had a rough day and “treated yourself” to a shopping spree, a fancy dinner, or some online impulse buys?
Yeah, you’re not alone.

Emotional spending — buying things out of boredom, stress, sadness, or even celebration — is one of the fastest ways to wreck your financial goals.

Here’s why it’s dangerous:

  • It creates short-term pleasure but long-term regret.

  • It often goes unnoticed ("I deserve it!" becomes a $500 monthly leak).

  • It delays the bigger, better wins you really want (debt freedom, vacations, peace of mind).

The Fix:
Create a 24-hour rule for non-essential purchases.

✅ See something you want?
✅ Write it down, walk away, and wait at least 24 hours.

Most of the time, you’ll realize you didn’t actually need (or even really want) it after the emotional impulse passes.

Also, build healthy non-spending coping strategies:

  • Exercise

  • Journaling

  • Calling a friend

  • Reading a book

  • Practicing a hobby you love

You can’t remove emotions from your life.
But you can remove emotions from your financial decisions.

Related tip: Set a "fun money" allowance in your budget to enjoy guilt-free spending.

5. Waiting Too Long to Invest

One of the biggest personal finance mistakes people make is believing they have to wait to invest.

Wait until they make more money.
Wait until they’re older.
Wait until they have everything else "figured out."

Meanwhile, time — your most powerful investing ally — is slipping away.

Starting small is a thousand times better than starting big someday.
Thanks to the power of compound growth, the earlier you start investing, the less money you need to build serious wealth.

The Fix:
Start investing something — even if it’s just $50 a month.

✅ Open a simple brokerage account (like Vanguard, Fidelity, or Schwab).
✅ Set up automatic investments into a low-cost index fund or ETF.
✅ Ignore short-term market noise — focus on long-term growth.

Every month you wait is money you’re leaving on the table.

Ready to start? Read How to Start Investing With Just $50 a Month.

💬 Final Thoughts: Small Fixes, Big Freedom

If you feel like you're constantly broke, odds are it's not because you're lazy, irresponsible, or doomed.

It’s because small, invisible mistakes are draining your money faster than you realize.

The good news? Small, powerful fixes can flip everything around.

  • Create a simple budget.

  • Attack debt interest with intensity.

  • Treat savings like a bill, not a bonus.

  • Separate your emotions from your spending.

  • Start investing now, no matter how small.

👉 You don’t have to be perfect.
👉 You just have to start making better moves, one decision at a time.

Fix these five habits, and watch your financial life transform faster than you ever thought possible. 🚀

SUSCRIBE on my YouTube channel @ https://www.youtube.com/@lilianemeteumba